| Paddle | := | A flat instrument used for spanking purposes - mostly made of leather or wood - sometimes with air holes for a better effect |
| Panic Snap | := | A linking device used with cable or chain that allows two lengths to be disconnected even when there is tension in the system. A safety device. (see also Bondage-Lesson Releasing) |
| Pet play, Petplay | := | Role play where the sub acts within the role of an animal like a pony, cat or dog. |
| Ponygirl | := | A submissive trained to act like a pony (see Pet play) |
| Poppers | := | A liquid stimulant which is sniffed. Poppers act by increasing the heart rate and raising the blood pressure. They can intensify orgasm.
Warning: Poppers can be quite dangerous. They may cause cell damage in your brain and heart- and blood circulation-problems. |
| Positions | := | (see also Slave Positions) |
| PE, Power Exchange | := | The commonly used term for play that involves some exchange of control or power. This can occur over the course of a scene or for a longer period of time. (see also TPE) |
| Pro-Domme | := | A Professional Dominatrix, who expects payment for her service. |
| Protector | := | A protector is one who is entrusted with the care of another's sub/slave - A protector is also one who will take the place of the Master/Mistress at any function the Master cannot attend. |
| Queer | := | Generic descriptive term for the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community |