BDSM Partner-Checklist
We are sorry, but we had to take down the playlist (partner
checklist).
A person who calls herself "JillM aka Electric Switch of the West"
claims that the list was originally written by her in 1982/83.
Our list was compiled in Sep 2000 and first published on the German
part of the BDSM Backroom. It was our own original work and never copied
from any other site or book.
We regret to have to take it down but we are not interested in a
legal dispute at the moment. We will anyway reserve the right to take
appropriate steps to clear up this issue.
Introduction
The following Partner Checklist serves 2 purposes: it demonstrates a
few things you and your partner should consider before, during and after
the play and some aspects which can be included in your play. It is also
meant to help establishing a proper communication by going through the
list and tell your partner what you like and what not and what you would
like to try.
Notes
Part 1 covers some safety aspects and contains some questions and hints
related to health and safety issues. This part is especially important if
you don't know your partner very well or if you are going to play with a
new partner.
Part 2 contains several play variants, sorted by topics.
"Active" means you want to be the active / executive part. "Passive"
means as the receiving part.
The ranking starts at -3 (I don't ever want to try this) and ranges to +3 (I
like it very much). 0 means: "I don't care / that doesn't give me a
'Kick'".
You can also print this page and if you like fill it out together with
your partner. Even the preparation of an
"erotic power play" can be lots of fun and very stimulating.
BDSM Dictionary / Terms
Part 1 - Safety
I am mainly into:
(D/s, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Fetishism) |
|
Safety Codes: |
- Red: Stop
- Yellow: ok, but slower/less/careful
- Green: Go on, more
|
Safeword: |
|
Absolute Limits:
|
|
Visible bruises/marks must be avoided (Y/N): |
|
Health Issues:
(Hemophilia, Allergies, Breathing Problems, Circulation, ...) |
|
Psychic Issues:
(Claustrophobia, ...) |
|
Other Remarks:
|
|
I want to talk before (Y/N): |
|
I want to talk after the play (Y/N): |
|
I want extensive verbal communication
during the play (Y/N): |
|
Part 2 - Play Variants
We are sorry, but we had to take down the playlist (partner
checklist).
A person who calls herself "JillM aka Electric Switch of the West"
claims that the list was originally written by her in 1982/83.
Our list was compiled in Sep 2000 and first published on the German
part of the BDSM Backroom. It was our own original work and never copied
from any other site or book.
We regret to have to take it down but we are not interested in a
legal dispute at the moment. We will anyway reserve the right to take
appropriate steps to clear up this issue.
Author: Ashtarot - 04.09.2000
Info: © 2000 Ashtarot/BDSM Backroom
Keywords: Partnerchecklist, Partner Check List, Playlist, BDSM List, Partner-Checklist
|