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We are sorry, but we had to take down the playlist (partner checklist).
A person who calls herself "JillM aka Electric Switch of the West" claims that the list was originally written by her in 1982/83.

Our list was compiled in Sep 2000 and first published on the German part of the BDSM Backroom. It was our own original work and never copied from any other site or book.

We regret to have to take it down but we are not interested in a legal dispute at the moment. We will anyway reserve the right to take appropriate steps to clear up this issue.


Introduction

The following Partner Checklist serves 2 purposes: it demonstrates a few things you and your partner should consider before, during and after the play and some aspects which can be included in your play. It is also meant to help establishing a proper communication by going through the list and tell your partner what you like and what not and what you would like to try.

Notes

Part 1 covers some safety aspects and contains some questions and hints related to health and safety issues. This part is especially important if you don't know your partner very well or if you are going to play with a new partner.

Part 2 contains several play variants, sorted by topics.
"Active" means you want to be the active / executive part. "Passive" means as the receiving part.
The ranking starts at -3 (I don't ever want to try this) and ranges to +3 (I like it very much). 0 means: "I don't care / that doesn't give me a 'Kick'".

You can also print this page and if you like fill it out together with your partner. Even the preparation of an "erotic power play" can be lots of fun and very stimulating.

BDSM Dictionary / Terms

Part 1 - Safety

I am mainly into:
(D/s, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Fetishism)
 
Safety Codes:
  • Red: Stop
  • Yellow: ok, but slower/less/careful 
  • Green: Go on, more
Safeword:  
Absolute Limits:

 

 

 
Visible bruises/marks must be avoided (Y/N):  
Health Issues:
(Hemophilia, Allergies, Breathing Problems, Circulation, ...)
 
Psychic Issues:
(Claustrophobia, ...)
 
Other Remarks:

 

 

 
I want to talk before (Y/N):  
I want to talk after the play (Y/N):  
I want extensive verbal communication during the play (Y/N):  

Part 2 - Play Variants

We are sorry, but we had to take down the playlist (partner checklist).
A person who calls herself "JillM aka Electric Switch of the West" claims that the list was originally written by her in 1982/83.

Our list was compiled in Sep 2000 and first published on the German part of the BDSM Backroom. It was our own original work and never copied from any other site or book.

We regret to have to take it down but we are not interested in a legal dispute at the moment. We will anyway reserve the right to take appropriate steps to clear up this issue.

Author: Ashtarot - 04.09.2000
Info: © 2000 Ashtarot/BDSM Backroom
Keywords: Partnerchecklist, Partner Check List, Playlist, BDSM List, Partner-Checklist

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